I can recall the overwhelming feeling of not knowing what I was doing when it came time to choose my first toy. I wasn't even sure what kind of toy I wanted and what I wanted it to do. It's ok to not know and just like a lot of things you may need to experiment with a variety of toys before you know which one is right for you. 

In the meantime, you can check out our Beginner Toys page which contains a multitude of beginner sex toys. I’ve also gathered a short list of some of our favorite beginner toys and their main features below.

Beginner Dildo

Dildos come in many shapes, colors and sizes for people of all genders and sexualities. Dildos can provide internal stimulations to the g-spot, prostate and other parts of the body as well!

The Addiction Unicorn Dil is a 5.5" piece that features a stunning pink hue with a uniquely ribbed texture running down the shaft and topped with a prominent tip for penetration. 

The Addiction Unicorn Dil is made from 100% silicone, this product feels silky smooth against the skin and is 100% certified body-safe to use on all delicate areas. 

Looking for some hands-free fun? The Addiction Unicorn has a suction base that can attach to almost any flat surface, or by attaching it to your favorite harness.

As this is a pure silicone product, it's recommended using only a water-based lubricant for an enjoyable experience and to always remember to clean toys before and after each use - practicing safe sex isn't only for partnered play! 

The Addiction Unicorn also comes with a small bullet vibe to give it that extra buzz. At only $27.99 we think it’s a pretty great starter. 

Beginner Vibrator 

Vibrators come in many shapes, sizes, and functions for all genders and sexualities and are a device that vibrates. Vibes can be used internally, externally and on many parts of the body. There are g-spot, p-spot, clitoral stimulators, thrusters, pulsators, wearable vibes and remote & bluetooth controlled vibes. There are many more, check out all our products that vibe on our Vibrators page.

When selecting a beginner vibe most folks are looking for the basics-something that buzzes, is an appropriate size for their needs and is also affordable. Below you’ll find a few of our faves! 

The shiny bullet is a 3.5" vibrating mini bullet with a sleek, shiny metallic finish. It has one button and ten modes to play with for up to 60 minutes. Even though it's a tiny little thing this bullet really packs a great punch! We love that it's also rechargeable and it comes in red and pink.

This rabbit vibrator is affordable and a really great starter vibe. The FFIX Rabbit has 20 powerful vibration modes. That’s correct, 20! It is also waterproof and battery-powered. It does require 4 AAA which are not included.

With its curved tip of velvety soft silicone, this G-Spot vibrator targets the pleasure center with 6 vibration modes and 4 vibration patterns. ROMP Hype is made from skin-friendly "tender touch" silicone. Its waterproof and rechargeable.

Beginner Anal Toy

Anal sex toys are designed to stimulate the nerve endings in the anus. Anal toys are a great way to add additional stimulation to your play. 

This vibrating anal plug by ROMP is both powerful and affordable. ROMP Bass is a vibrating anal plug, shaped for pleasure and coated in soft, smooth silicone for maximum comfort. Its waterproof and rechargeable for wet & wild use, over and over again, with 6 different intensity levels and 4 different pattern modes to vary sensations.

This stylish plug has a powerful vibrating motor - the perfect first anal toy. A truly unisex toy that absolutely doesn't care who uses it. ROMP Bass knows only pleasure.

Beginner BDSM & Kink

If you are looking to dip your toe into some BDSM and Kink then we got some products for you! 

Expand your erotic horizons beyond the ordinary Whether you are just curious about kinky sex, an experienced BDSM player, or interested in exploring your own erotic edges, this diverse guide to the world of kink is sure to inform, inspire and challenge! The Ultimate Guide to Kink features the expertise of renowned educators writing passionately on their favorite subjects, including Patrick Califia, Midori, Laura Antoniou, Barbara Carrellas, Lee Harrington, Jack Rinella, Lolita Wolf, Madison Young, Hardy Haberman, Felice Shays, Ignacio Rivera, Sarah Sloane, Mollena Williams, FifthAngel and Edge.

Inspired by la passione Italiana - where love is almost an obsession, Sei Mio's seductive selection has been created to feed desires to live and love to the fullest. 

Perfect for experimentation or seasoned spanking enthusiasts, this vegan, waterproof paddle is double-sided for sensation options - sleek and smooth or rugged tyre-textured. The Sei Mio Tyre Paddle is an excellent choice for a starter impact toy.

Beginner Strap

When choosing a strap-on some things to factor when choosing the right one may be: size, comfortability, durability, compatibility with your current toys, and cost. The Happy Rabbit Strap-On Kit might be one of the few toys that cover all of these factors. 

Offering a whopping 15 vibration functions for both of you and a fully adjustable harness, outstanding bedroom bliss is only a hop, skip, and a jump away.

The slim 5 inch insertable shaft features a tapered head for smooth insertion and sensational internal massage. It has 3 speeds and 9 patterns, while the external ears offer 3 rumbly speeds for powerful external stimulation.

The included harness comes with 3 sizes of O-rings for interchangeable use with other favorite dildos, and can be adjusted to fit a waist up to 67 inches.

For even more thrilling couples play away from home or in the bath or shower, the strap-on is waterproof, USB rechargeable, and features a travel lock.

Beginner Penis & Ball

One of our favorite penis toys is a stroker. Strokers can be used for solo play or with a partner. The Sol Vibrating Stroker by Vush is one of our favorites and it doubles as a beginner stroker as well. What a toy!

Sol was designed to provide a non-intimidating, beginner friendly sex toy option for penis owners. Sol is a vibrating penis stroker and the versatile design means it can be used both solo or in a couple. Sol works to provide stimulation up and down the penis and features flexible wings allowing the grip strength to be easily adjusted for different sizes and sensations. The open ended structure of Sol also means that the head of the penis can be stimulated orally and the balls can be massaged by a partner while the stroker is in use. Sol also features 10 different pleasure settings to discover and explore together. 

These toys will set you on the right path to get started in owning your own pleasure, whether that's for solo play or with a partner or partners. You can check out our entire Beginner Toys page for more products. 

Happy buzzing!